Our experience in relationships shapes the way we respond to others. When current relationships are unfulfilling or lacking, we may need to work on transforming our patterns into new ones.
In Pathway Balancing Kinesiology, this work is often done at Level 2 of the upward spiralling Journey – ‘The Community’. On Sunday, part of the training included work in Gateway 20 – ‘Divinty’ and it’s Direction 9 ‘Being Available with Positive Hopes’. We discovered this Direction is about ‘Fulfilled hopes’ and added a new Step 25 ‘Expectations of self in a relationship’.
What do we do when someone isn’t there for us as we’d expected? What happens to us if someone values our time together less than we do? Emotional pain can be felt physically and even be incapacitating.
We found that the way through was to aware of our heart-felt sensations – hurt, anger, anxiety etc. Then to relax bodily, breathe and accept this is how it is for NOW. To wait, be, stay grounded in the body & present moment. The trainees used grounding techniques from the Pathway Balancing Healing manual to balance and resolve embodied energy blocks.
To move forward, choose to respond to the other person, or their absence, with compassion for each other’s limitations. Connect with God, or your Higher Power, and do something that promotes peace for the whole situation.
To work on issues of renewal in relationships, join us on the first Soul Journey Day on Sunday 21st March – there are just two places left now. http://www.pathwaybalancing.co.uk/html/souljourneydays.htm
To become a Pathway Balancing practitioner, sign up for the Foundation Course starting on Sunday/Monday 20th/21st June 2010. http://www.pathwaybalancing.co.uk/html/training.htm
Let’s enjoy more stability and fulfillment in our relationships, Corrina
